You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You're on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who'll decide where to go.
- Dr. Seuss "Oh the Places You'll Go"

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Selvaraj

The Story of Selvaraj:
"My village is Malasakkadu. I used to ride a buffalo cart. I was 12 years old when I found bumps in my body.Then I got rashes and it would not go away. I was riding a buffalo cart and my arms used to hurt. Then my eyes and mouth drooped and I was almost on my deathbed." In 1993 Selvaraj was forced to leave his village and family as a result of his developing Leprosy. He was treated, but due to his deformities he became shunned from all society. In his words "My family abused me and asked me to get lost. They hated me." Selvaraj became a beggar, sitting in the train stations and asking alms. After a while he learned about one of the colonies for leprosy patients and has been living there ever since.


Selvaraj's story is representative of many of the leprosy-afflicted that reside in the colonies in India. Cast out of their homes and villages and shunned by their families, lepers are looked upon as less than human.
They are referred to as "untouchables".

I have not had the pleasure of meeting Selvaraj, but of the leprosy-afflicted I have met, I would describe them as such:

generous
kind
gracious
humble
thankful
musical
joyous
raucous
playful
funny
loving
happy
optimistic
beautiful

In reality, they are anything but "untouchable"

Vanakkam

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Love, Love, Love.

Having just seen the Cirque Beatles' show, LOVE, this weekend and it being the month of love and what not, I have decided to do a post dedicated to all the things I love about India/Rising Star:


Reading to the kiddos


Helping to write sponsorship letters (which will be my primary job upon my return)


Impromptu dance parties in the leprosy colonies


The Mango Grove


Playtime :)


Chuddidhars (you might as well be wearing pajamas all day they are so comfy)


Just Dance 2....oh wait...it has nothing to do with India....

I can't help it. I LOVE Just Dance 2.

RA RA RASPUTIN!

Vanakkam!




Monday, February 14, 2011

Commence India Countdown: 3 months and approx. 5 days...

Well you may have noticed that I am about as consistent with blogging as Lindsay Lohan is with rehab (if this reference isn't understandable to you I'm just trying to say I'm really inconsistent). It's been about 5 months since my last post and my return to India is fast approaching. I can hardly wait to squeeze all my little Indian babies and see their cute smiling faces again! They are the best children in the world, hands down....seriously, they are way better than your kids. Because my return is coming up so quickly I, again, find myself in the process of visa applications, immunizations, finding parasite medications and all the other lovely aspects involved with traveling to a country like India. After last summer's adventure I find myself a much more knowledgeable traveler, which makes preparations that much easier. Here are a few of the things that I am making sure to bring/do this time around to avoid some of the...inconveniences...I experienced after my last trip:

  1. Cutting all my hair off: I didn't realize before my last trip what a big problem lice is in India, particularly for the kids at Rising Star's campus. I am NOT taking any chances this time around--boy hair is definitely forthcoming.
  2. Chocos/Tevas: My shoes of choice during my last India trip were my Rainbow flip flops...they barely survived three weeks. Because of this I am breaking down and getting chocos. Don't fret, I will not be wearing them with socks and I won't even wear them in the States, they are just another necessity while living in India.
  3. Parasite Medication/Preventatives: So the month of November I was really busy and stressed and I started feeling sick. I went to the family accupuncturist over Thanksgiving and lo and behold I had a very large tapeworm--my second parasite from my trip to India. Perry (my tapeworm) was a great companion, actually, and helped me to lose weight and cut back on the holiday treats...I just don't ever want to have a friend like him again.
  4. Miniature Flashlight: Power in India is spotty at best and the walk between the children's hostel and the volunteer hostel at night when the power is out is not one of my favorite things. Rising Star's campus is 2 hours outside of Chennai in a very rural area. When there is no power and the path isn't lit there are all kinds of critters you could run into. To remedy this situation I will be constantly packing my miniature flashlight to help me out whenever the power isn't working...it will get a lot of use.
When listing and thinking about all the crazy things I went through and "acquired" from my last India trip, I can't help but wonder, Why am I leaving my friends and family and going back to India again?? Well, that question is actually very easy to answer,


Moment like that are all the reason I need :)

Vanakkam

Monday, September 13, 2010

Introducing...Mahalakshmi!

Two blog posts in less than a week?!?! Oh my gaahhhh!!! (please go watch the Doorbells sketch from SNL to hear exactly how this is supposed to sound). Anyways, I was looking through my blog today (bored in class as usual) and I realized that there are hardly any pictures or videos in the last few entries. Just lots and lots of writing...I am no J.K. Rowling so this is most likely really boring. Because of this, I have decided to slowly start adding videos from India that I have never uploaded to my blog. I tried to upload these videos while I was there but for some reason the transfer from India to the USA caused my videos to show up as porn...needless to say I didn't try to load anymore videos. BUT now that I am back in the states I figure it is worth a shot so here it goes.

The videos I will be posting the next few weeks, months, etc. highlight the children at Rising Star and will hopefully tug at your heartstrings enough that you will want to sponsor one of these adorable little faces. I already got one friend to commit to sponsoring a child (Mike you're the best!) and I would love for more people to be able to take part in this wonderful program and help give these children an education. I can almost guarantee you will get as much, if not more, out of this program than the kids. Yes, they are that awesome.

This first video is of a little girl at Rising Star named Mahalakshmi. She is in first standard and very special to me. If you have been keeping up with my blog you will notice that she is mentioned several times and even referred to as my child--I. Love. This. Girl. It's a short and simple video but who can resist that face??

That's all for now!

Vanakkam! (I just figured out I have been spelling this wrong)

Friday, September 10, 2010

Four!!

Hello all! I am back in the blogospheere and excited to let you all stalk my life! That sounds sarcastic but I really am addicted to blogging and LOVE hearing about people that like to follow and read my blog--so keep on reading! School has started and life is getting back into the same old pattern of school and work, school and work. I am actually typing this blog while I sit in my three hour assessment class. This is my last year at BYU and to be honest I am SO ready to be done! Five years is a long time to be at one school. I am also anxious to get back to India working and playing with the kids and all the people there--it's really making these last two semesters seem really long...at least there is a light at the end of the tunnel!

Well, since I haven't blogged in so long, I have yet another Rising Star experience to share. The week before school started, Rising Star held a charity golf tournament in Heber, Utah. Shawn Bradley (the former NBA player) hosted the event and it included some amazing prizes (they were giving away a Harley and a boat!), food catered by Cafe Rio, and a President's Brunch where Becky Douglas, Rising Star's founder, spoke and told Rising Star's story. Amy Antonelli set-up the event and had asked former volunteers if they could come and help serve and work the event. It was really fun to volunteer because Audrey and Soren and Dani (some of the other volunteers from when I was in India) were also there volunteering and it was great to see them and work with them again. We arrived at the event bright and early and were able to help set-up the tent where the brunch would take place and register the players as they arrived. The whole event was VERY nice and the players really got some great stuff (each player got a golf shirt and a swag bag filled with goodies). On a random note, I worked at the registration table and I was able to register and meet LaVell Edwards--the BYU football LEGEND! (I was tempted to tell him that I live down the street from his stadium but thought that would be weird and irrelevent). After I finished registering players, another volunteer and I worked as witnesses at hole 15 to see if anyone got a hole-in-one. The prize for getting a hole-in-one at this hole was a Harley Davidson motorcycle so it was important to know for sure if a player really won the prize. This was a relaxing job because we got to sit in camping chairs out in the sun all day....this was not an easy job because it was blazing hot and we were in all black and we had to keep an eye out for balls to make sure they didn't hit us (a couple got really close). Even with these elements and the eventual sunburn, it was fun to do and now I can say I have worked as a witness at a golf tournament! After this job, I went back to the main tent and helped to serve the players lunch. Becky and Shawn Bradley both spoke and it was a great culmination to the event. I helped breakdown the tent before heading home. I love working and helping Rising Star and the whole golf tournament was a great success and was a wonderful day for me.

This is myself and Amy with Shawn Bradley. He is just as nice as he is tall :)

Well, that's all for now. More posts to come soon!

Vannacom!

Thursday, July 22, 2010

The Aftermath aka Life after RSO

Well it has now been over a month now since I left RSO. I have gone back to work, started school, gone to Vegas and back, saw Justin Bieber in concert (he was AWESOME!), and done a variety of other things that one does during the lazy summer days. I was sick for a few weeks upon returning home from India but thankfully I got through it and am good as new! School will be starting in about a month and life is about to get back to it's crazy normal self. I have had requests from a few people to keep my blog going even though I'm home from India and I am going to try my best to do so. :) I had no idea people actually wanted to be kept updated on my life! Who knew!?
Since I have been back I have had time to reflect on my time in India and what a truly amazing experience it was. Besides coming home sick I also came home with an intense feeling of guilt. Coming home and seeing my excessive amount of clothes (I love clothes), shoes, books, etc. I felt ashamed to have surrounded myself with so many things that are not necessary. I couldn't even bring myself to go grocery shopping! (I hate grocery shopping anyways so this just added to my dislike of it). I kept thinking to myself that the children and people in India had so little and yet were able to still lead lives filled with happiness, love, laughter, and family. I kept thinking to myself, "If they can be happy with nothing why can't I?" These guilty feelings began to ebb by the end of my first week home but they have changed me for the better, though. As mentioned before I love clothes and I love to shop but since going to India the thrill has lessened. Don't get me wrong, I would still never turn down a girl's shopping day but I have found that having so much is not necessary and that my money could be much better spent elsewhere--like sponsoring a child from Rising Star. side note: EVERYONE SHOULD SPONSOR A CHILD FROM RISING STAR OUTREACH!! They are the most wonderful kids you will ever meet and they love their sponsors so much and appreciate all they do.
My trip to India this summer, overall, was a life changing experience. To know that every single thing you did during the day was in the service of someone else is a high like none other. I now understand when returned missionaries talk about the wonderful since of purpose they felt during their mission--knowing that everything they did was important. That is how I felt while working for Rising Star. I know everything I did there was important and appreciated and that the people are forever grateful to all the volunteers they come in contact with. I can hardly wait until I am able to go back next summer! I guess I should probably mention that I have taken a position with Rising Star after I graduate to be their sponsorship director in India! I haven't figured out the details yet but I know I will be going back to India after April graduation to see and work with all the wonderful people there. I am so excited to go back and continue working with Rising Star to help the leprosy-affected in India. It's an amazing work that I am proud to be apart of.

Vannacom!

Saturday, June 12, 2010

"One more photo Auntie, one photo..."

So I know that my last post had a definite note of finality to it but I realized I have to blog about my last day in Chennai and the journey home! Especially because my last day in Chennai was AWESOME and HILARIOUS!
My last night at Rising Star (as documented in the last post) was a late one. Between blogging, packing, playing in the rain, and everything else I didn’t get to sleep until 3:30am. We were scheduled to leave the next morning at 9 to go to Chennai so I had to get up around 7:30am to be able to have time to get everything organized and out the door. It’s crazy how settled in you can get even living out of a suitcase. After three weeks I had a serious organizing and packing task ahead of me. At around 9:30 we all finally headed to the bus and out the door. After Rajenderon (our driver) had loaded all of our luggage onto the bus, everyone just stood outside for a minute not getting on—no one really wanted it all to end. Finally, though, we said our good-byes to Kristin, Katie, and Dani and headed off to Chennai.

Once in Chennai we checked into the Marriot and dropped our bags off before heading to Spencers. Spencers is a huge, labyrinth of an indoor mall. It has tons of stores and passageways and tons of people milling everywhere. The group had yet to split up because the earliest flight didn’t leave until 6:00pm so we all went to the mall together. After shopping around for a little bit and eating lunch we slowly started loosing people. Heather and Raygan went in search of a bank before meeting the RSO bus again, then Eliza, Audrey and Matthew had to leave to catch their flight. Tenney separated from us to head back to the hotel so finally all that was left was Soren, Lauren, Anne Marie, and myself. We were all EXHAUSTED and therefore really punchy and delirious. We were laughing at everything from the out-landish Indian clothes that are sold in the mall to comments we would say or even just stupid facial expressions. It was one of those days where it was only funny if you were there. We all had tons of fun finishing up our shopping and roaming around the mall for the day. Before we left we all sat in the smoothie shop and laughed and ate and generally lived up to the stereotype of loud Americans. We also all got take-out food to eat back at the hotel room for dinner.

The most reliable means of transportation in India is rickshaws. Unlike the rickshaw I took in Delhi, most are little motorized cars that can barely seat four people if you really squish. After we were all done shopping and had all gotten food, we headed outside to catch a rickshaw. Everyone in India jacks up the price the minute they see Americans. The hotel had told us we shouldn’t pay more than Rs. 100 for a rickshaw to the hotel. Of course when he first saw us he tried to charge Rs. 250. With some bargaining and threatening to go to another rickshaw he conceded to 100 and we were off. Between all four of us, the driver, our food, and our shopping bags we were crammed in the rickshaw. By this time, though, we were beyond punchy and just being downright ridiculous. The driver put on tamil music and we would imitate the singer’s high voice and dance in the backseat. The driver thought we were hilarious and was laughing with a crazy maniacal laugh before we started mimicing the singing too!! Then we started doing all these crazy Indian neck dance moves and we just couldn’t take it anymore—we were all dying laughing. To make this all even better, motorized rickshaws are completely open-aired, they don’t even have doors. This fact combined with the large amount of people in India that ride motorcycle and the complete disregard of lanes when driving in India, means that we were putting on a show for everyone around. Whenever we would stop at a light there would be at least six people staring at our nonsense and laughing. That rickshaw ride was a great, fun moment to start winding down this trip with.

When we got back to the hotel room, we all crammed onto the bed, ate our pizza and just relaxed and continued giggling and laughing until it was time to head to the airport. At one point (while Anne Marie was being really good and going to the gym) Soren, Lauren and I decided it would be fun to have dessert in bed. We went to the lobby and bought some delicious looking pastries only to get back up to the room and have all of them taste disgusting. With the crazy, sleep-deprived mood we were still in, though, we thought this was hilarious and just added to the awesomeness of the day. It finally came time, though, to head to the airport. We said good-bye to Soren and the three girls headed on our way. Lauren and I parted ways with Anne Marie at the airport and we are now sitting in Frankfurt waiting for our next flight to Chicago. We will finally split up in Chicago and my Rising Star Adventure will officially be over…for now.

I have been missing the kids and Rising Star all day today and yesterday. I spent the flight (when I wasn’t sleeping) looking at all my pictures and videos and wondering what all the kiddos were up to. While we all shopped at Spencer’s we continually took phrases from the kids that we would hear all the time. These included saying, “Super!” with our hand motion and accent, calling each other Auntie and Uncle, asking each other for Boomers (“Auntie, boomer!”) and asking to take pictures and see them. It’s amazing what an impact these kids had on our lives just in the past two weeks. As I have said before, they are all amazing, special spirits that I love SO MUCH!

Well, that’s all for now!

Vannacom!